Your seeds have been planed, and now you see the very first small plants begin to surface. At this point, these plants which will become hearty and strong over time are very delicate. They require tender care and handling right now.
As your first member/moderators come online, it is crucial that they sense your presence and dedication to the community. The best way to do that is to make SURE that there is a reply to all posts in the beginning. During this first 60 - 90 days, you want to lavish them with attention...because you will be beginning to set a precedent for how they will act as the community grows.
One of the things that gets discussed early on is the subject of community standards, and I have discovered some pretty amazing things about good communities. If you give them a chance at ownership, and support their decisions, you won't have to worry much about the discussions getting out of control.
I manage one community that is fast approaching 200,000 messages, and our code of conduct is two simple things:
Post Professionally : Speak as you would at work
Mutual Respect: Disagree with the message if you like, but leave the messanger out of the discussion.
Other than that, this community is fully self policing. Because they value their community, they are the first ones to write a new member and explain why a post was not appropriate, or how they might have worded it for better results. They are also the first ones to greet and welcome new members to the community.
There have been a couple of times that I've had to intervene, but they have been few, and usually are more about keeping the moderators out of a touchy situation than anything else. I wish that I could say this was all planned from the beginning, but it was simply a byproduct of slow gowth, listening, and watching the members.
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